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Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Laundry in Addis

I have become the laundra-matic. Why: because my family brought three of each thing: panties, pants, shirts, and they get dirty here in Africa very readily, from the red soil, the dirty benches upon which we wait for paperwork, in the taxi cabs. Not to mention the fact that if you somehow manage to preserve your clothes for the day, Pacifique is sure to throw up on you at least one good one per hour. So, we wash every day multiple times and try our hardest to make our small box of Tide last three weeks. When in Rwanda, itr was no problem to wash and dry. Time consuming, yes, but no problem logistically. Rwanda was in its dry season and it was bone dry and 100 degrees each day, so our laundry dried almost instantaneously. But here in Addis (we got here Saturday night) we are in the rainy season, which means massive downpours and thunderstorms every day in the afternoon and virtually impossible laundry drying situations. At any given time there are diapers and t shirts and panties draped meticulously all over the room- on the doors, hangers, chairs, even the luggage rack. I spend my days obsessed with turning them just right, so that all parts will be exposed to the hotel air system at some point during the day.

So Addis is fine. We are staying in way too nice of a hotel- one that has me seeing dollar signs in place of everything my cornia, (retina?) registers, but apparently there is no other place to stay that is safe and has good water and no raw sewage. It is a world apart from Rwanda, and the whole family agrees that Rwanda felt more comfortable to us. This lkand is strange to us, more foreign. We were fortunate to get in on the weekend, have Sunday to relax, and then beat feet to the adoption work this morning (Monday). The task at hand here is to get a US visa so Pacifique can come into the States. Kind of a vital point, as leaving him here in Ethiopia would really stink.

We were able to get up, go to the doctor for an exam necessary for the Embassy interview and then proceed right to the Embassy to file our paperwork. The man there in charge of adoptions was quite easy to work with, and let us slide by with our lame translations of the Rwandan documents and also said we did not need an interview, which I had understood was an integral part of the process. So we wait for tomorrow for the medical tests to come back, and then they are sent to the Embassy. After that, they will issue the visa to come home to the States. We checked return flights and there are none Wednesday and Thursday and Friday are full. So, we are booked on a Tuesday pm flight arriving Boston on Wednesday, but that will all depend on the medicals coming back in a timely and perfect fashion tomorrow. And then of course the visa being issued in time to make the flight.

But wait... now mom from home is saying that our travel agent there shows us canceled on the Tuesday flight and booked on Thursday, so I guess what this means is another wait and talk with the Ethiopian office in the morning. Argh. Welcome to the transitory lifestyle of private international adoption.

So, if you do not hear from us again, then it is good news and we are on a plane. If we are stuck, we will certainly find the time to write.

Many blessings and thanks for all the love, prayers and well wishes sent this way. It has meant so much to us all.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Congratulations – No one is more deserving than you and your family of this miracle child you are bringing back to share with your family friends and community.

I cannot find words to express how comforting the extensive letter you wrote to me at a time that you had so much to do getting ready to go pick up your new son just as I lost my son. I can only imagine how hard it was for you to write and how hard it was to stop in the middle of the whirlwind of planning and activity just as you were preparing to fly to Rwanda. Only you could have written, hand written at that, such a comforting letter, such understanding words.

You are wonderful and blessed, your whole family is wonderful. This wonderful Baby Pacifique is blessed to be coming home to such a wonderful family and thank you.

Sandy

Anonymous said...

Hello all -this is an update from J's mother. They are on their way! She did say in her blog entry that no news from her was good news: so now we are most certain that home to Vermont will be tomorrow(Wednesday) sometime. Her Dad and I have been in touch with them up until the time they had to leave for the airport in Ethiopia, and at that time all systems were go. Everyone has poured such love and kindness into this seemingly long story, but the hope, the heart, the love is what has prevailed. And will be there to greet them with open arms. We are so very blessed and grateful.

Meg said...

I hope things go as quickly as they can for you!!! Hope you are home soon with your sweet baby boy and your big girl!

Betsy said...

You'll be landing in Boston soon, pinching yourselves to make sure this is all real. Can I stop holding my breath now?
I will be needing regular, day by day follow up posts illustrating daily life in Vermont with your new, expanded, family. Don't let me down.....
I need gradual weaning.

Anonymous said...

We can't wait to see you. Your house and community is aglow awaiting your arrival. The incredible rains the last few days have been doing their wonders in greening up Vermont. Welcome home. With love and peace-
Kathy, Steven and Emery
P.S. ... it brings a whole new meaning to that expression given your blessed child's name

Teleion Holon Community Farm said...

i'm going to restrain myself from showing up at your house to meet paci until things settle down a bit. but i second betsey's request to keep us all updated with your lives. i'm totally addicted. and so very happy for you. love, bonnie